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Do Not Speak Against One Another
Throughout the year, our church has been dedicated to nurturing growth through mutual consideration of one another. To achieve this, fostering open and communicative relationships is paramount, safeguarding against potential harm. Central to this principle is adhering to the admonition not to speak against one another (James 4:11) and being mindful of how we represent others in our speech.
The New Testament provides numerous examples illustrating the destructiveness of speaking against fellow believers, particularly when fueled by bitterness and jealousy (James 3:13-16). Gossip, slander, and similar forms of discourse sow seeds of distrust within the church, hindering its vitality. It's imperative that we eradicate any malicious speech directed at others, regardless of its origin.
While such harmful speech often arises from overt bitterness and jealousy, it can also manifest subtly through grumbling and complaining. Criticizing elements of our communal worship, such as service length or song style, serves little purpose other than put others down and build up yourself. Let us refrain from fault-finding and instead endeavor to build up one another.
An intriguing aspect of this topic is how the instruction against speaking against one another is linked with other "one another" commands. Rather than tearing down with our words, we are encouraged to demonstrate kindness, tenderheartedness, and forgiveness (Ephesians 4:29-32), thereby nurturing the church's growth. This underscores the necessity of eliminating harmful speech for genuine edification.
As we reflect on these principles, let us be mindful of our communication with our fellow laborers in Christ. May our words be a source of encouragement and uplifting as we strive together for the advancement of His kingdom.
Our dedication to building a community of mutual respect and support extends beyond mere verbal restraint. It involves actively fostering an atmosphere of encouragement and affirmation. When we speak, let our words be seasoned with grace, uplifting those around us (Colossians 4:6). Even in moments of disagreement or correction, let us approach one another with gentleness and humility, mindful of our own imperfections (Galatians 6:1-2).
Furthermore, let us not underestimate the power of listening. Often, our rush to speak can overshadow the importance of truly hearing one another. James reminds us to be "quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry" (James 1:19). In practicing attentive listening, we demonstrate love and respect for our brothers and sisters in Christ, fostering deeper connections and understanding.
In conclusion, our journey toward growth as a church community hinges on our commitment to thoughtful and edifying communication toward one another. By refraining from harmful speech, embracing words of kindness and encouragement, and cultivating attentive listening, we can build a church characterized by unity, love, and mutual support. Let us continue to strive toward this ideal, guided by the the example of our Lord Jesus Christ.
